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Kugira ngo umwana wawe agire ahantu heza kandi hatekanye ho kuruhuka no kuruhuka, agatambaro ko kuryamamo ni ikintu cy'ingenzi.Ibitanda by'abanaziza mu buryo butandukanye n'imiterere itandukanye, kandi guhitamo ikwiye bishobora gufasha cyane mu kunoza ihumure ry'umwana wawe no kumugiraho amahoro yo mu mutima. Hamwe n'amahitamo menshi ahari, ni ngombwa kubanza gusuzuma ibintu bike by'ingenzi mbere yo kugura.

Umutekano ugomba kuza mbere ya byose mu gihe uhitamo agakoresho ko kureresha umwana. Shaka modeli zifite ishingiro rikomeye kandi rihamye kugira ngo wirinde kugwa. Amakabati yo kureresha umwana agomba kandi kugira imigozi yo kumurinda kugira ngo afate umwana wawe mu mwanya we kandi arebe neza ko atagwa cyangwa ngo agwe. Ni ngombwa kandi guhitamo agakoresho ko kureresha umwana kujuje ibisabwa mu mutekano kandi gakorerwa isuzuma rikomeye ry’ubuziranenge.

Ihumure ni ikindi kintu cy'ingenzi ugomba kwitaho. Akazu ko kuraramo k'uruhinja kagomba kuba gafite uburyo buhagije bwo gupfunyika no gushyigikira umwana wawe mu gihe aruhutsemo. Shaka akazu ko kuraramo gafite imyenda yoroshye kandi ihumeka neza kandi yoroshya uruhu rw'umwana wawe. Tekereza ku gishushanyo mbonera gitanga ubufasha bworoshye, gitera umugongo kwifata neza, kandi kikagabanya ibyago byo kubabara umwana wawe.

Ingano n'uburyo bwo gutwara umwana nabyo ni ibintu by'ingenzi ugomba kuzirikana mu gihe uhitamo agatanda k'uruhinja. Agakanda kagomba kuba gato bihagije kugira ngo gakwirane neza n'aho uba kandi katagutwara umwanya munini. Agakanda kagendanwa na ko ni amahitamo meza niba ushaka kugakura mu cyumba ujya mu kindi cyangwa ukagendana nawe mu rugendo. Shaka imiterere yoroheje kandi ifunguka kugira ngo byoroshye kubika no gutwara.

Guhindura imiterere y'umubiri ni ikindi kintu ugomba kwitaho mu gihe uhitamo agakoresho ko kuraramo kw'uruhinja. Amwe mu magare afite imiterere ihinduka igufasha guhindura aho umwana wawe ahagaze cyangwa aho ahagaze kugira ngo ahuze n'ibyo akeneye uko agenda akura. Uko umwana wawe agenda arushaho gukora cyane, ahandi hantu hashobora guhinduka ahantu ho gukinira hatekanye. Guhitamo agakoresho ko kuraramo gafite imiterere inyuranye bizagufasha kuzigama amafaranga mu gihe kirekire kuko gashobora guhuza n'ibyo umwana wawe akeneye bihinduka.

Hanyuma, tekereza ku buryo bworoshye bwo gusukura. Impinja zishobora kuba zangiza, bityo kugira agakoresho koroshya gusukura ni ingenzi cyane. Shaka agakoresho koroshya gusukura gafite agapfundikizo gashobora gukurwaho, gashobora gukaraba n'imashini kugira ngo byorohereze umwana wawe kugumana isuku kandi asukuye. Udukoresho tworoshya gusukura dukozwe mu bikoresho bidapfa amazi na two ni amahitamo meza yo kwirinda ko umwana yasuka cyangwa ngo agire impanuka.

Mu gusoza, hari ibintu byinshi by'ingenzi ugomba kuzirikana mu gihe uhitamo icyizaikibuga cy'uruhinjaUmutekano, ihumure, ingano, ubushobozi bwo gutwara, ubushobozi bwo gukora isuku no koroshya isuku, byose ni ibintu by'ingenzi ugomba kuzirikana. Kugura intebe nziza y'umwana ijyanye n'ibi bipimo ntibizaha umwana wawe ahantu hatekanye kandi heza gusa, ahubwo bizanaguha amahoro yo mu mutima kuko umwana wawe ari mu maboko meza. Fata umwanya wawe, ukore ubushakashatsi bwawe, hanyuma uhitemo intebe nziza y'umwana ikubereye ibyishimo byawe by'agaciro.